My gender is cottage core

🏳️‍⚧️Help 4 trans people move to Oregon🏳️‍⚧️

Because of Oklahoma having violently anti-trans legislation passing in the House and senate and the already hostile polical climate, my partner and i and our housemates are moving to Oregon. We officially have a lease signed! The deposit ended up being $5,100 + $1,069 for rent. I paid everything out of mine and my partner’s savings and my roommates are covering the other portion. Anything helps, we still need to move everything and buy food, pay utilities, etc. And we will have to pay June rent on the 1st. None of our jobs start until the end of May so we will not be paid until mid-May. Anything helps! We could use any support right now

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pokedext

My friend left our former toxic employer to pursue her own business, these are her wonderful designs for t-shirts. Any support for my friend is much appreciated. You can find her etsy shop here.

sergle

lesbiacebian

fat people are allowed to be fat even if they don’t starve themselves or push themselves physically past their limits btw

lesbiacebian

tags that say #i hear a lot of "you're only allowed to be fat if you've tried very hard not to be and it didn't work" #fat acceptance isn't conditional

adding my tags cuz i think they’re important

dabwax

foggyroses

jerma in dollhouse with an annoyed expression, image is overlaid with fire and smoke with the text "Sparkle off. its monday get back to work"

sergle

anapplepie

when programs fucking autocorrect <3 to ❤️ and :) to 😃,,,, do you have any idea what you’ve just done?? what you just fucking destroyed ?

sufficientlylargen

A) It's irritating when systems turn lovely ascii art into crude little pictograms, and

😎 It's even more frustrating when you weren't actually trying to make an emoji.

littlealienproducts

Rat King Patch by Katiewhittleart

dabwax

pearwaldorf

You want some serious old fart advice? Never, ever lend your friends more money than you think you can lose permanently. I don't fucking care if they say they'll pay you back. I don't care how small the amount is. Write that shit off as gone in your mind. It will eat at you forever if you don't.

Some people say the same thing about family, but I think it applies more to friends. Family is (usually) held together by obligations the way friends aren't. And money is a huge stressor in all kinds of relationships, not just romantic.

I'm not saying this to bum you out. I'm telling you because this is not something you want to learn on your own. Because it fucking sucks to realize it's one reason you're no longer friends, whether you were necessarily aware of it or not.

vaspider

I generally go one step further: I do not lend friends money at all. I will give you what I can afford to give, and I ask you to pay forward what you can when you can, give to someone else who needs it. This policy has really served me well. When I'm giving money, I never have to worry if I'll get it back -- I won't! It's a gift! No stress!

zinderant

One piece of advice I read that strikes me as the best of all worlds: if someone asks you for money, and you can afford to give it to them, you give it with the reassurance that it is a gift. They can pay it back, but they're not required to. But, and this is the part you don't mention, if they ask you for more money, you don't give them any unless they've previously returned what you originally gave. This maintains trust and mutual respect, and prevents the giver from being taken advantage of.

sergle

manywinged

i'm not really a hater so much as a disliker. occasionally the fires of hate burn within me but mostly i just encounter things and go hm. don't like that.